This article is about how to create an atmosphere conducive to enjoying pornography in the privacy of your home. What to do while or after enjoying pornography is up to the imagination of the reader.
Choose a suitable time alone or with your partner that will not result in interruptions. Night time is often ideal since there is less of a chance your friends will visit or your mother will call. Watch pornography during daytime hours,when evenings are not possible. Try to isolate yourself as much as possible from friends or relatives, and create a pleasant, quiet environment. Turn off your phones, lock your doors, close the blinds and remove any other distractions.
Determine what outlet of adult entertainment you want. There is a great deal of free content available on the internet but you may prefer magazines or longer content available via subscription.
Relax and touch yourself. If you are new to this experiment and see what feels good. Remember there is no pressure to perform or reach orgasm so feel free to explore.
Tips
- To remove visual distractions, try dimming the lights, or add additional sensory elements by lighting candles or putting on some music.
- Take care that your enjoyment of pornography doesn't create feelings of inadequacy, jealousy or abandonment in your partner. Think of how you would feel if your partner spent hours salivating over pictures of men who are better endowed than you or women with bigger breasts/smaller waists than yours.
- Viewing porn with your significant other can be an enjoyable shared experience that can help put to rest their fears.
- Communicate with your partner early in the relationship to see how they feel about pornography and whether you are willing to change your behavior if they disapprove.
- Many women find vibrators or other sex toys helpful.
- If you regularly browse porn you may find greasemonkey scripts and various firefox extensions helpful. Pornzilla is a website that collects these tools.
Warnings
- Pornography should only be viewed by adults in a private place where children cannot have access to it.
- Avoid videos depicting people who may be under the age of 18. Such videos are illegal and can land you in prison (not to mention the moral implications).
- Often porn videos will depict (apparently) unsafe sex, sexually harassing behavior, or even non-consensual sex. Remember that porn is performed by actors (who take frequent STD tests and sometimes use hard to see condoms) and you shouldn't try to duplicate their behavior.
- Take care if trying to duplicate sex acts you've seen in porn you can hurt yourself. Listen to your body and stop if something starts to hurt.
- Some people think viewing pornography is wrong and you should be aware of possible fall out with loved ones who have this view.
- Viewing pornography, like eating candy or having sex, can be addictive and can have a negative effect on your relationship with a spouse or partner who disapproves or feels jealous. Unless you are a teenager if you feel that you have to "sneak" to view pornography, it would be good to reconsider your actions and their effects. A frank discussion of the subject with your significant other can help to lay to rest unwarranted fears and eliminate feelings of guilt if you decide that is acceptable.
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